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Middle-aged married submissive seeks Asian Mistress

I am a 57 year old Caucasian male, 6'0" tall and 240lbs. I have short salt and pepper hair and beard.I have a good sense of humor and am looking for a non-cash Mistress to explore BDSM limits. I like role-play and am into some fetishes and would like to learn more.However, I am married so sex is not possible. If you can agree to these guidelines I might be interested in meeting you.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height6' 0" (183 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureSmile
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionDepression
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusUnemployed
Annual incomeSeeking support
Job TitleMicrostation CAD Tech

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchSomeone who will respect my marriage and myself, and do no harm to either. Someone who would like to play and explore each other's fantasies within the strict limits we give to one another. A person who will be discreet and observe the tenets of being Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
Our first dateA meeting in a public place such as a restaurant or cafe to talk and discuss things about what each other would like in a Mistress/submissive relationship. Another such meeting might be necessary as well before we proceed cautiously into our first real BDSM meeting together.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Femdom, Genital torture, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasWhen a girlfriend of mine tied me up and shaved my pubic hair. She had hers shaved already and then we had sex with no pubic hair at all. It felt wickedly wonderful.


FetishesFeathers, Shoes / Boots, Tickling

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isOK, but I prefer masturbation
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Dungeon clubs, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, but I want to try it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Cock ring
"Off Limits":Since I'm married, sex is off limits. But I'm interested in anal penetration.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to be abused by my Mistress take a strap on from her hard up the ass and then be milked for my cum over and over and over and then have to drink it.
Fantasy locationElevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub
Fantasy sex partner:Lucy Liu. She has a powerful, dominating look, and her eyes can be downright evil. She could make me grovel with just a look.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
I like to wear:Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex
Ideal session:A three to four hour Session involving role play and mind fuck with BDSM involved. My Mistress would start out slow, tying me up and describing what she will do to me (whether she does so or not). Depending on what pre-discussed theme we have in store I would act out her fantasies for her enjoyment, whether it would be mental or physical.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:To have a sensually dressed Mistress control me for her pleasure. She would tie me firmly with lots of rope and be gagged and ordered to do her will for as long as she wishes, and suffer her 'punishment' with predicament bondage and/or spanking, flogging, cbt, and paddling. She would use verbal orders and humiliation to control and add to my torment.